New Year's Dating Resolutions for the Young at Heart
The New Year makes us all a little wiser as we reflect back on the past year. It is a great time for self-improvement, to kick bad habits, and to start new ones. Your dating life is a great place to start polishing up and let yourself shine.
Here is a countdown of dating resolutions to help make 2010 your best year yet:
Travel to a foreign land, no passport required. Have you always wanted to whisk away on a date to Paris? A weekend flight to a foreign land may be out of reach for most—so learn to bring an exotic locale to you. Plan your next date away from the tried and true spots and embark on a culinary adventure, without luggage or airport lines.
Discover the Secret of Youth.
What is the elusive secret to staying young and in-the-know? Using the internet to make and maintain relationships. Staying up on the ins and outs of online social networking will not only help you find dates, but is a skill that will be sure to impress dates as well.
Give your (online) self a makeover.
This is one New Year's makeover resolution that doesn't involve trips to the gym or passing on your favorite dessert. Refreshing your online dating profile with new photos and information can open you up to potential dates who may have mistakenly over-looked you in the past.
Date on a dime.
Finding inexpensive date ideas doesn't send a cheapness signal. In this economy, it's wise for everyone to think of creative ways to save a few dollars without sacrificing fun. Planning dates on a budget will force you to think of unique activities and venues that will be far more memorable and engaging than a lavish 7-course meal any day.
Banish dating judgment.
We all judge potential dates on little things— a profile picture, political views, taste in music. Particularly in the world of online dating, it is easy to judge people too quickly, risking the dismissal of a potential great match. Shut down your usual pre-judgments and open yourself up to people who may not fit your traditional "type" but just may be your perfect match.
Join the club.
No matter what your interest, chances are you aren't alone. Finding people who share your passions and hobbies is a great way to broaden your social circle and a shared interest is an easy ice breaker. Find activity groups or interest clubs through local community centers, churches, volunteer organizations or search online to find groups in your area.
Put your people to work.
Put your pride aside and utilize your network of friends and family to play matchmakers. Blind dates may seem intimidating but an important part of dating is stepping outside your comfort-zone to meet new people and take risks. Trust that your friends and family won't lead you astray: those who know you well are probably very in tune with the type of partner you're looking for.
Talk to strangers.
Don't let a little shyness put the brakes on your dating life. Make a New Years challenge with yourself to strike up a conversation with one new person a week—whether it is in the cereal aisle at the supermarket or on a neighboring treadmill at your gym. Wherever you see an attractive stranger, don't hesitate to make a move.
By Fay Silger for SeniorPeopleMeet.com
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